Digital use in the family: a practical guide

The family tablet: a first step toward shared digital use

The tablet is often the first digital device a family shares. Using it calls for clear organization so that things run smoothly and safely.

Setup and configuration

• A single main account managed by the parents
• No password shared with the kids
• Apps chosen and installed by the parents only
• Parental controls turned on and customized
• Screen time set by age, with preset alarms

Daily rules of use

• Use in common areas only
• Set times (for example: 30 minutes after homework)
• Ask permission before each use
• Hand it back to the parents after use
• No use during meals or in the hour before bedtime

The family computer: a more complex tool

As children grow, the computer becomes necessary for schoolwork and creative projects. Managing it takes more rigorous organization.

Ideal setup

• Password-protected parent account
• Kids' accounts with restrictions
• Browsing history turned on
• Content filters installed
• Placed in a common area

Organizing files and access

• Shared folder for family documents
• Personal folders for each child
• Clear rules about downloads
• Usage time set according to needs

The first phone: toward digital independence

Getting a personal phone is an important step toward digital independence. This decision, generally considered around age 14, should take into account:

• The child's maturity
• Real needs (transportation, activities)
• The ability to follow the rules
• An understanding of responsibilities
• The family budget

Maintaining a healthy digital environment

Making everyone accountable is essential to using digital technology harmoniously.

Parents' responsibilities

• Regularly checking histories
• Updating restrictions
• Monitoring downloads
• Keeping an eye on storage space
• Setting consistent rules

Kids' responsibilities

• Closing apps after use
• Putting documents away
• Reporting problems
• Respecting usage times
• Deleting unnecessary files

Printable: “My Digital Rules”

To help kids take these good practices on board, we created a fun, interactive poster. This printable lets you:

• Clearly see the rules of use
• Check off the commitments that are being kept
• Track progress
• Build a positive routine around digital technology

Download our “My Digital Rules” poster

Conclusion

Managing digital devices harmoniously as a family comes down to a balance of technical controls, clear rules and open communication. Our “My Digital Rules” poster supports you in this effort by making the rules more fun and easier for kids to understand.

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