Have you recently formed a new blended family, or are you thinking about officially becoming one with your new life partner? Know that this change in family dynamics can lead each family member to deal with different challenges, whether it's a change in routine because of shared custody, differences in parenting style and values with the new partner, or even the guilt some children sometimes feel about the bonds they form with their parent's new partner.
The key to making these changes go well and letting everyone adjust at their own pace is to take things gradually and to follow a few tips in particular:
- First build a connection with the new partner, without getting into the role of parent
- Make sure the new partner doesn't become a replacement for the biological parent
- Give yourselves time
- Be open and leave room for conversations and new emotions
For even more tips, take the time to watch this video by Laurence Morency-Guay, psychology professor and founder of the platform Parent qui apprend!
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